Relationships With People (NOT – Awakening)

Today I want to talk about relationships… as they are a VERY popular and prevalent topic among the awakening.

Relationships can be one of the most confusing aspects of a human life….

Right?

When you add a spiritual awakening into the mix… “fogetaboutit!”

As confusing and challenging as certain relationships become as a result of one person making rapid changing… (you)… the eventual outcome is often….beautiful…

Here’s what I noticed about people, in general…

We all want to be understood… but rarely possess an equivalent desire to understand.

We all want to be accepted… and yet many times have difficulty accepting.

Here’s what many awakening folks fail to realize in the beginning…(including myself).

It’s no secret that most of humanity is a bit narcissistic on a fundamental level… as a result of being so heavily influenced by their ego.

You.. on the other hand are experiencing a distancing from that pull of your ego… which is opening you up to greater depths of…true… human compassion and understanding.

So… what I am saying….

“You have to make the first move.”
Don’t wait for others to come around…

You are here to be an example of how people…could...choose to interact with one another.

Pigs will fly before other people will accept what they perceive to be total insanity spewing out of you… especially if you try to tell them about things like, ascension, 4th density, spirit guides, and aliens

You are not here to be accepted…

You are here to learn to accept.

5 minutes of any evening news channel will demonstrate humanities current level of acceptance of one another.

So… again… it will have to start with you.

If your family thinks your crazy for eating a vegan diet, following astrology, and using tarot cards as a  means of making life decisions…. so what?

Let them… that’s their right.

Just as it’s your right to think sacrificing their health and happiness to slave away at a shitty 9-5 just to sit in front of a screen for 4 hours per day is crazy.

Personal stand points do not matter when enough acceptance is present.

Real quick guys… I will take you through a recent cycle of many of my relationships…. and show you how they came around in the end…

I think you will get a lot out of this…

In the beginning:

I realize I am awakening… the planet is ascending and currently being dominated by evil ass holes at the top….

I try to tell everyone I know to warn them! (makes sense…right?) seems like the noble thing to do….

They of course react by thinking I am totally insane… not absorbing a word of my warning. 

As time goes on:

I realize how dysfunctional they all are… especially my parents… I also realize just how much of my own pain and suffering is a result of my upbringing…

This leads to a massive resentment.

But as the years continued to pass:

I was continually humbled by my own awakening…

I realized how dysfunctional I am… I also see just how difficult it is to change… to let go… and to transform.

I have help of spirit guides that I can talk to at will…. hundreds of synchronicity events if not thousands… per day – guiding me… and an ability to read energy like a magician….

and it was STILL incredibly difficult for me to change…transform.. and accept.

These people whom I once judged and resented have NONE of this going for them.

How can I expect them to act any other way?

I can’t.

I realize that they… and everyone for that matter….

Are doing the ABSOLUTE BEST they can…. given what they have experienced and what they were taught.

In that, I found acceptance.

I can love them all again for who they are.

I don’t NEED them to understand or accept me…. for me to accept them.

Now… with this new understanding

as I have gone back into many relationships with very different expectations…

there is harmony.

-Victor