Once the process of ascension takes hold, just about all areas of your life begin to change…right?
That’s how it has been for me at least…
Ascension or…the spiritual awakening process, fundamentally… implies that one begins to experience;
- Expanded Awareness
- Expanded Sense of Self
- Higher Vibrational Frequency
When it’s all said and done… this is great!
However, these processes of change penetrates so deep that they ALL areas of their life undergoes major change…
This includes RELATIONSHIPS
Having been through the whole, relationship turmoil and unexpected changes myself, I know that it works out in the end, as it always does.
However, that does not mean that during the transition, it is not very,
- difficult
- sad
- emotionally painful
I have created this article to share what I have learned in terms of, how you can quickly move through the transitional periods and see the situations from higher aspects of your consciousness, allowing you to better…
- understand
- accept
- and move on
from the relationship endings you may be experiencing due to your choice to ascend into a 4th density reality and state of being.
As you move through the ascension process, and by definition, raise your vibrational frequency at an accelerated rate, you will quickly notice that many people that once seemed so firmly grounded in your life, are not on the same path as you.
We are all being given the opportunity to wake up to our greater selves, but that involves a lot of difficult inner work that many are either not able to do… or simply choosing not to do at this time.
The result is that you will begin to feel quite literally, energetically, repelled by certain people.
Your relationships may begin to come to a head and all of your unconscious issues, resentments, and differences in opinions will rush to the surface, many times resulting in a, falling out with that particular person.
This is what happens, but emotionally, it still hurts.
There is the feeling of intense sadness as this unfolds.
You wonder why your loved ones can’t be on the same page.
Why wouldn’t they want to take advantage of this chance to awaken?
The answer to this question is the way out of suffering and into the vibration of loving acceptance.
Here is the silver lining:
The rate at which these relationships break down is parallel with your ability to see the situations from a high enough perspective to sink into acceptance and peace of mind.
Yes, the sad fact is that many people are not doing the necessary work to raise their vibration sufficiently to move with this wave of ascension that you have chosen to ride.
However, as you, yourself, ascend, you will KNOW that you and them, are eternal souls… ETERNAL.. meaning, it’s really no big deal.
Their soul is choosing to experience this grand opportunity as an opportunity to encounter a really intense series of hard learning experiences… Their soul will learn greatly from this approach.
You have decided to use them to lift up out of the 3 Dimensional way of playing out karma, and they are basically doing the opposite and allowing the incoming energies to intensify their karmic engagements.
Both are valid on a soul level.
The greatest thing that you can do for yourself AND them is to do what is right for YOU…
If you want, in your heart, to awaken, than you must do so. It is your obligation to both yourself and your loved ones.
You will be living your own truth and at the same time, providing your loved ones with an alternative example of how they could do the same.
Many will see the example and still choose the other path, and that is fine.
You love them…
True love involves an allowance. A choice to allow them to be themselves, just as you prefer to be yourself.
So, as these relationships naturally part ways, your ability to see them from this higher vantage point of loving acceptance will be there to cut through the initial and transient sadness…
This is part of your journey.
To know true love.
To display and embody true love.
-Victor
